Wedding photos – our beautiful family

The wedding I never knew I wanted

I really did not know that this was the wedding I wanted. We had our dream day 13 years ago, and we were happy with it. But as the years went on, the desire to add to our family, the miscarriages, the fertility treatment, the news from experts that we would not have children – they all changed us.

We were leaving. We were part-way through the process of emigrating (we couldn’t live in middle-class suburbia amongst all the nuclear familes when we didn’t have one) when we realised that our daughter was on her way. She changed our lives, as children do, and her brother completed our unit.

We began to crave a celebration of us as a family, a unit where each one of us makes the rest better, despite the bickering and power struggles that accompany our daily lives. And so we did it again:

Daddy walked his daughter down the aisle

I think the most excited person was my girl. She had longed to have the tulle dress and the tiara. She is a lover of flowers (she asked for real flowers for her birthday). We had an informal ceremony in the lady chapel of St Michael’s Church, but it was she who convinced us to surprise the guests with a walk down the aisle. I was excited on her behalf. So Jason walked his daughter, and my 6 year old son walked me.

Wedding photos: walking his Mum down the aisle

The Bug did his reading beautifully!

They both rose to the occasion, GG reading her words with such cool and calm aplomb, and great humour, the Bug surprising us all with his confidence. I had wondered right up to the last moment whether he would have the guts to say his lines, but he never hesitated. I have never been more proud in my life.

 We relived our wedding night with fireworks

We partied together. Jason and I were overheard reminiscing about our original wedding celebrations as we relived firework night and an Abba band – I have no idea what we said, but we were happy.

Wedding dance

We danced.

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The girls danced.

Girls filled the dance floor, boys marauded around the venue in a gang, looking like dudes in their ties and jackets – yes, all men scrub up well in a suit, even 6 year olds!

Wedding photos: The Bug shows off his grown up cufflinks

He chose his entire outfit based on these cufflinks, which we found at a local craft fair months earlier. He loved them, and wanted to be like his Dad. The cravat, the waistcoat, the smart jacket – he wanted them all. Including the proper cufflink-ready dress shirt – they don’t sell those in Monsoon, I can tell you!

Wedding buttonholes: burnt orange calla lilies and hypericum berriesTwo gorgeous buttonholes, one big, one little. The same in posies for GG and myself, by the wonderful Claire at Wedding and Venue Decorators.

Incredible cake from ChoccyWoccyDooDah

And the cake of our dreams from ChoccyWoccyDooDah.

My beautiful people

My girl was a real-life princess with her crystal tiara, and with her very own prince by her side they made a wonderful pair.

The first 6 images in this post were taken by our very talented friend Stephanie Belton. Steph is a children and baby photographer in Hertfordshire, and takes some of the most beautiful pictures I’ve ever seen. Ever since I saw her pictures of her own daughter in her bridesmaid’s dress, I’ve wanted her to photograph my children at a wedding. She takes stunning pictures of us every few years, and we are always blown away by the results. We are privileged to have such a wonderful friend. Check out her site if you’re interested in her work.

We were thrilled too to have some blogger friends at our celebration  – virtual friends who have become real supporters of this family, and great fun to boot. They’ve also been kind enough to let us have their images. With thanks to Jenny from Cheetahs in my Shoes, and Bruce Barrow.

Wedding Fireworks

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Epic wedding cake from Choccywoccydoodah

Epic wedding shoes from Carvela

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The epic shoes came off, a taxi full of helium balloons took us home, and our entire family fell into one bed, happy, exhausted, but content.

I’d marry you all again in a heartbeat!

Disclosure: all the things we mentioned in here we either paid for, or were gifted to us by amazing friends. We were under no obligation to write about our wedding photos, or flowers, or cake, but really, why wouldn’t you want to?!





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Comments

  1. says

    I absolutely LOVE that you guys did this. And I love how you made it such a celebration of how your family has grown and changed. I was so excited for you watching all the detail sneak through on Instagram on the day, it looked so lovely and you all looked amazing. It made me want to do it all over again myself for all those same reasons, to celebrate our team now! Hopefully the hubby will ask me again…..! x
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  2. Iona Baird says

    As above this was an absolutely lovely way to Celebrate your family! My oldest was at our wedding and you know, it would be nice to do it again with the youngest! What a great idea!

  3. says

    Such gorgeous pictures. You can see the excitement in your little girl’s face, and as for the photo of your son holding your hand, that nearly made me cry! It sounds like such a lovely day, not surprised you want to do it all again! :) xx
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  4. says

    Wow Helen what an epic post – you weren’t wrong there! It sounds like you had the most spectacular day and the photographs are just incredible. I love the Autumnal colours you chose too, just perfect. What a wonderful thing to do. You all look so very happy and absolutely stunning – the bride in particular! Thank you so much for sharing #whatsthestory
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  5. says

    What beautiful photos and what a lovely happy ending. So glad you got the family you dreamed of.
    We’ve been married 13 years too, maybe we should have another special day?! It looks a great excuse for a party!
    Sarah MumofThree World recently posted…HavenMy Profile

  6. says

    You all look absolutely stunning and it’s sounds as though you had a truly fabulous day. Can’t wait to renew our vows and have the small people involved – you’ve certainly given me inspiration!

  7. says

    This is just such a beautiful post and celebration of family the tears are flowing!! You and GG look so beautiful, the boys look so smart but most of all you all look so happy – all those smiles :)
    Congratulations on your wedding and anniversary.
    You have me so tempted to do similar – maybe in a few years time ;) xxx
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  8. says

    So lovely. I never realised that you were about to emigrate until you discovered having GG. I’m so glad that it all worked out for you (all) in the end! What a lovely day, the love shines through xxx
    Claire recently posted…Silent SundayMy Profile

    • says

      They delivered ours into the London shop and I collected it from there. They box it well, so as long as there’s space in the car, it’s not a problem to drive it.

  9. says

    I just read your post again and had to comment. it might be by emotional state too that put tears in my eyes by you wrote it so beautifully and your pictures are so lovely.
    A great love needs to be celebrated and it is so nice to see that this applies to your family too.
    You are all so beautiful and i am so sorry i couldn’t give you a hug in real time!
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