#50NotOut: Changing the Goalposts for Older Women

  It was my first time. No one had ever said it to me before, and I'd been blithely unaware that I was at this point in my life. I'm talking about the day a shop assistant called me 'Love.' Now, you might not see this as a big deal. My friend T says she's very happy...

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#50NotOut: Changing the Goalposts for Older Women

  It was my first time. No one had ever said it...

Hi! I’m Helen.

I’m a lifestyle blogger and a (sometimes terrified) mum of two kids hurtling headlong into their teens. Some days I survive on really good coffee. On others, only a sharp Sauvignon will do. I love bright colours, a good gossip, and clothes shopping with my girl – she’s my very own personal stylist! I’m #50NotOut, going up a gear in life now my kids are older – who’s with me?

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Every now and then I get a bee in my bonnet. It could be something ludicrous I’ve seen on social media. It might be one of those no-brainers that drive everyone insane – like the amount of plastic the world dumps in our oceans. Inevitably, I’ll end up here, writing it out onto the page. Bear with me – we might just be on to something..

#50NotOut: Changing the Goalposts for Older Women

  It was my first time. No one had ever said it to me before, and I'd been blithely unaware that I was at this point in my life. I'm talking about the day a shop assistant called me 'Love.' Now, you might not see this as a big deal. My friend T says she's very happy...

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Why Kids Need You More, not Less in their Teens

When you’re in the thick of looking after your young child, and someone tells you teenagers need you more than toddlers, you laugh. But here’s why it’s true…

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Thoughts of a Secondary School Parent

How Secondary School has Changed Me I read an article by a mum of a year 7 child  last week and it really struck a chord. She described how much her daughter had changed since moving from year 6 to secondary school, from the changes in her daughter's appearance, to...

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